I act my own way because it's easier to forget other certain things. You probably do the same. But people, don't judge a book by it's cover. It's unethical, pointless, useless and any other synonym that you could think of along those lines. Even if they look rough on the outside you still don't know how they would act as you make an effort to have them as a mate. If you approach someone you only just see the outter defense shell, it's not until you're friends will you graze and penetrate the outter shell. If you become best friends, there will still be the outter defense shell; you won't know everything. Thus, you need to keep going and try o